Why Church Dating Advice No Longer Works: Jj and Kait Tomlin on the Realities Single Christians Face

JJ and Kait Tomlin join the podcast to give candid advice to church leaders who, um, haven’t dated in a while. It’s different out there than it used to be. They cover outdated dating advice, what pastors should say, and talk about the real challenges of being Christian and single today.

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Carey Nieuwhof
My name is Carey Nieuwhof. I'm a former lawyer and founding pastor of Connexus Church. I'm married to Toni and we have two grown sons. I'm incredibly passionate about helping people thrive in life and leadership. That's why I write blogs and books, like my latest best-seller Didn’t See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects But Everyone Experiences, host a weekly leadership podcast, speak to leaders all over the world and produce courses like the The High Impact Leader.